AMA About Dating (Las Vegas)
Hey, I am BetAgainst. 51yo White Male. Las Vegas. I am 6'1" around 200. Balding. Ugly face. Dad bod. Bad posture. Poor complexion. Bad teeth. Always broke due to degenerate gambling. However, I have enjoyed a pretty successful dating life over the last ten years. I have dated models, strippers, bottle service girls, cocktail waitresses, and a few high level professional or independent business women.
I am starting this thread because I am in a stable long term relationship right now (very happy) and I want to share how I got to this place. And I have a ton of notes from dating coaches that I am wanting to data dump somewhere before I delete them. And I have helped many of my friends (mostly younger than me) find girlfriends that they are happy with.
Anyway, I have tons of great pick up stories and some solid dating/relationship advice. Ask away!
TEASER: Three don'ts (and WAY more important than they seem)
Don't disgust her.
Don't annoy her.
Don't disappoint her.
Always. Women are constantly screening men for any reason to reject them. The biggest rejections are lack of confidence, lack of social proof, lack of social intelligence however, high on the list of reasons for rejection is poor hygiene. Take a shower. Brush your teeth. Wear clean clothes. Don't pick your nose. Keep your junk so fresh and so clean.
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Women want to hang out and have fun way more than men. However, they are way more selective than men. Your job is to be that fun cool guy that provides them with that opportunity void of judgement.��
Exactly what do you think "hanging out and having fun" entails?
I'm guessing it's something that would not be fun for me.
And what exactly did you mean by "lack of social proof"?
Man, your stories are gold. I’m all about learning from real-life experiences like this. One thing I’ve found in the dating scene, especially here in Vegas, is that confidence and being laid-back really do the trick.
Man, your stories are gold. I’m all about learning from real-life experiences like this. One thing I’ve found in the dating scene, especially here in Vegas, is that confidence and being laid-back really do the trick. A buddy once put me onto tosituhma.com, and honestly, it gave me some good insight into how people think when they’re looking for connections or just trying to have fun.
Someone sure sounds jealous of OP)))
