Bodybuilding Classic Physique Division Offseason log
You know you who it is already. Can't recall my old password or even what email I used so here we are. I promised I'd st
That author was definitely a product of his time and all his first three novels were quite an event and very popular - as you say, tapping into a particular late 80s mood among gen Xers.
Even by the time of his follow up to Psycho a few years later his style and message felt dated and I haven’t read anything of his since then.
I just checked Wikipedia in case he morphed into a director or screenwriter and had a second career of note but it doesn’t look like any of his later work in any media had much impact
i think the rules of attraction is his best film
rick,
Did you actually link a hardcore porn between man and citrus?
fw,
A lot of older millennials are into Ellis. Sadly I think some thought it was more of a guideline than a cautionary tale. (IE Less Than Zero)
Guy,
The movie does have a weird ending and carries a much different tone than the book, especially when placed contextually with Ellis's overarching theme of what we'd now call "NPC Culture". The biz card scene, the repeated examples of people via what they're wearing (almost always nearly identical), the slightly better haircut, and obviously, the repeated confusion of people since they're all the same. Victor Ward in Glamorama actually had the best take on this when he doesn't recognize some dude who's wife he's banging because he's 1) an idiot 2) everyone is the same to him. Tho you can watch an equally loose adaptation of that in Zoolander.
The books are vastly better since it is rather difficult to film the same level of unreliable narrator (you see what you see) and they didn't even cast a bunch of people who look nearly identical. I prefer Glamorama to AP btw. I'd encourage a read. I'd say they're more salient now since these were takedowns of a culture that is insanely ubiquotous rather than farcical to the average person.
rick, Did you actually link a hardcore porn between man and citrusfw, A lot of older millennials are into Ellis. Sadly I think some thought it was more of a guideline than a cautionary tale. (IE Less Than Zero)Guy, The movie does have a weird ending and carries a much different tone than the book, especially when placed contextually with Ellis's overarching theme of what we'd n
This is a strong endorsement. If Thus Spoke Zarathustra fails to peak my interest I may go ahead and try out some of Ellis's works.
For the record, I don't think my employer is actively monitoring everything I do online, but links to hardcore p could get automatically flagged and that'd be a rough way to go out.
that new “darryj3” thread takes me to an alternate version of 2p2 which is probably some sort of phishing scam. tried to reply with the following, but post wouldn't go through. perhaps for the best;im turning into thremp as i age:
You write like somebody with a very low IQ and lack the requisite self regulation to engage in the most basic of adult habits like cooking your own food. Higher education is a complete waste of time for somebody like you who can't even write coherently in their native language with punctuation and paragraph spacing.
The military is a great option because it will necessitate the adoption of self control and practicing regular sleep, exercise, and eating habits. People like you generally only respond to consequence and punishment rather than either intrinsic motivation or external rewards, so it's likely you can salvage your own adulthood through an externally imposed rigidly structured lifestyle.
Drop out and enlist immediately. Do not under any circumstances have children. Do not let any overeducated midwit cuck/karen convince you that you have a “mental illness” requiring therapy or psychiatric medicine. Do not use any recreational drugs, including alcohol.
Good luck!
Harsh but fair.
yeah, I typed out a response to darryj3 too and it tried to get me to put a new login in, so I gave up
yeah, I typed out a response to darryj3 too and it tried to get me to put a new login in, so I gave up
In retrospect I'm glad I didn't post that. He's looking to vent, not for practical advice.
It makes me rage that western and even to some extent Chinese society tries to shove higher education down everyone's throats as a solution to the confusion of youth. A healthier society would have gotten that guy into something like prison guard, drilling for oil, commercial fishing, agriculture, police, military, or trucking. Those jobs are important. But in a world where competition for mates is so fierce and social status often takes precedence over actual utility to society or income, I can see why "herp derp go to college" isn't necessarily that ill-informed.
Like I said, out of the office, out of the voting booths, into the kitchen, fault-divorce and if you want no-fault divorce you get nothing, mass female only immigration from predominantly white and asian countries, and society is fixed. I'm pretty sure I'm joking but only like 60% sure.
Another banger, but frankly despite my misogynistic tirade above I have no idea about the online far-right or nationlist figures. I'm assuming he means something different than mainstream figures like JP, Candace Owens, Jewish guy who owns that shitty internet media network who's name I can't even remember who talks super fast and debated destiny. Maybe he's referring to like Nick Fuentes? I don't follow anyone who puts politics into any context other than inter-sexual competition sorry. Because ultimately that's all that matters.
Either way it's funny to see a self proclaimed black pilled incel literally steering his admittedly small audience away from right wing politics. All the formal research on incels paints them as moderate left, disproportionately non-white, and deeply ideologically opposed to the red pill part of the manosphere as exemplified by Andrew Tate (literally more so than they are toward mainstream gynocentric thought). And yet ****ing idiots who created Adolesence cannot ****ing get their **** together and create anything but a white nationalist caricature who doesn't exist as their bogeyman. Because painting him as a 5'4 left leaning to apolitical autistic moderately high iq indian guy from a divorced family with a severely recessed jaw and norwood 2 at age 23 just wouldn't work optically and would probably just garner sympathy. Can't have that though, sympathy is only for women.
I'm glad I did pursue higher education. Master's I'm iffy about; it was maybe useful for 'character building' and really pushing myself and doing something hard and learning my limits, but I'm not sure it was worth the tradeoff of time and money. However, I wasn't ready for higher education at 18, not even close. And I remember my scores were pretty poor, my attendance was spotty, and I was easily distracted by things like video games and girls. Then at 21 it was like a switch flipped and suddenly I had the capacity for delayed gratification and the patience to tolerate boredom much better than before and to think more abstractly. This is pretty consistent with pre-frontal cortex development timelines in males. There wasn't some transformative event; there was one sorta inspirational figure but she didn't have all that profound of an influence. I think it's more just that I was physiologically ready for it at around 21. But that first 2.5 years... I did not utilize this time very well nor did I make anything more than marginal real academic or intellectual progress.
MAnsion, fancy cars, lots of transactional instagram thotts, mean and domineering, has maybe done time in prison or committed incarceration worthy offenses.... these are weird ideas of “alpha males". I consider the guy who lives in suburban Arkansas who makes like 240k-350/yr without cucking out into college owning a landscaping business with 3 kids and a thin wife with bolt-ons and fillers who he's been married to for 17 years to be very "alpha". Lifetime partners in the single digits because he only ever really dated with intent. He still has a full head of hair, he cooks his own and his family's food and doesn't eat junk, has six pack abs at age 42, lifts 3-4x/wk for about an hour, actually reads for pleasure once in a while, isn't addicted to his phone, has very little social media presence, has a lot of in person friends, and attends religious services regularly.
That's like turbo-alpha in my mind but I guess it doesn't sell well to literal 16 year olds.
MAnsion, fancy cars, lots of transactional instagram thotts, mean and domineering, has maybe done time in prison or committed incarceration worthy offenses.... these are weird ideas of “alpha males". I consider the guy who lives in suburban Arkansas who makes like 240k-350/yr without cucking out into college owning a landscaping business with 3 kids and a thin wife with b
Does this actually matter that much for married dudes in their 40s? I mean, you sort of described me (not every box obviously, I cucked out and went the white collar route among other boxes not being checked). And I am losing my hair and it doesn't seem that big of a deal as far as my status and sense of self worth.
Maybe if I was going to get divorced and re-enter the dating market, but even then I dont know if it would really be that big of a deal. Maybe it is selection bias, but I can think of a lot of bald dudes in their 40s-50s that seem pretty alpha in the way you describe.
MAnsion, fancy cars, lots of transactional instagram thotts, mean and domineering, has maybe done time in prison or committed incarceration worthy offenses.... these are weird ideas of “alpha males". I consider the guy who lives in suburban Arkansas who makes like 240k-350/yr without cucking out into college owning a landscaping business with 3 kids and a thin wife with b
Coming from you, bolded wasn't surprising, as you've posted your thoughts on this before, but I've never really understood that well. Is the above bro minus regular church attendance really less alpha?
Coming from you, bolded wasn't surprising, as you've posted your thoughts on this before, but I've never really understood that well. Is the above bro minus regular church attendance really less alpha?
I agree with his overall premise almost entirely (although I think the term alpha is almost unusable in a serious way these days) but yeah, deludedly believing in an all seeing, all knowing, all powerful little man in the sky doesn't seem too alpha to me. But then I live in a Godless country and while I know a few good, nice, fun religious people who believe in the good values part of religion without the oppressive parts....there is so little religion in and around my life that I'm not sure my pov is particularly balanced.
I'm also not a subscriber to the lifetime partners in the single digit part although...now being in a relationship with a woman who is almost certainly in that camp....I must admit to a level of discomfort about the prospect of her asking me about my lifetime number, given I had a sustained period of being a total slut. And of course, I like the fact that her number is so low.
She hasn't asked so far and I will deflect as much as possible before answering but I won't lie. So I really hope it doesn't come up
either way....back to the point, which is that I very much agree with the overall pov in his post
1. No, being bald does not disqualify you from being alpha but it does demonstrably make you less physically attractive which is an undeniable component of being alpha. It is perhaps the singular biggest component, and one that red pill grift *****fluencers love to ignore. If you compensate accordingly, no problem. One of the fundamental tenets of the black pill I agree with is that physically attractive=alpha, but where I depart from them is in this notion that we have little to no control over our own physical attractiveness. Lifestyle, habits, and cosmetic interventions are extremely powerful.
2. Religious service is a bonus, but if somebody manages to exhibit pro-social behaviours or impart these upon their wife and children that's just as good. For most couples, your wife is basically like your first child and needs guidance/raising in a way. When this dynamic is inverted, relationships often collapse.
Yes, I do consider Dunyain to be very alpha in my framework, however radically different that is from the conventional definition.
Feelwrath, it has little to do with belief and more to do with community and a social enforcement mechanism for pro-social behaviour. Most people a bit too dumb to adopt this without the metaphorical stick and having it be proliferated by social pressure and conformity has historically been a good strategy. In a way, religion itself is an evolutionary mechanism which insures the selection for and exhibition of pro-social and cooperative behaviours. And historically, unification and cooperation via commonly shared values enforced by religious doctrine and myth were very literally mechanisms by which groups of humans conquered other groups of humans with less well develop religious orthodoxy.
I'm just throwing out completely subjective criteria and not saying I'm "right". It's more like, "what kind of life would my hypothetical son live to make me feel the most pride in him?". If I ask myself this question, promiscuity, being prone to existential anxiety, overthinking in general, and general indecisiveness are distinctly not behaviours and traits I'd want him to exhibit, despite the fact that I strongly exhibit them myself.
I agree with his overall premise almost entirely (although I think the term alpha is almost unusable in a serious way these days) but yeah, deludedly believing in an all seeing, all knowing, all powerful little man in the sky doesn't seem too alpha to me.
I guess we should wait for Guy, but if I'm understanding him correctly, I don't think he thinks you have to actually believe. You just have to show up and participate enough to derive the ancillary benefits. The thing is that his hypothetical dude is already winning, so I don't know what adding a couple of hours per week commitment is going to get him.
Edit: Looks like he kind of addressed it while I was mid post.
It's become unusable due to it turning into a literal satirical caricature by those most vocally celebrating and self-identifying with the title. It's one of the cringiest things on the entire internet and has been for at least a decade. Redefining it in more realistic, healthy, and "happy" terms in my own ******ed subjective criteria doesn't make it any less cringe unfortunately.
Religious service is a bonus, but if somebody manages to exhibit pro-social behaviours or impart these upon their wife and children that's just as good. For most couples, your wife is basically like your first child and needs guidance/raising in a way. When this dynamic is inverted, relationships often collapse.
I probably laugh out loud at a post 1x/month. This is my one for April.
I'm just throwing out completely subjective criteria and not saying I'm "right". It's more like, "what kind of life would my hypothetical son live to make me feel the most pride in him?". If I ask myself this question, promiscuity, being prone to existential anxiety, overthinking in general, and general indecisiveness are distinctly not behaviours and traits I'd want him to exh
I pretty much agree with this too. Very difficult too (or it was for me in the 90s) to be out there rooting around and trying to get your numbers up without lying to and often emotionally hurting a non zero number of women too. Pretending you're more into them than you're not, not disclosing other women you're seeing/rooting etc etc. At the time, that was all in the game but it's not now behaviour I am proud of/admire in others
I'm just throwing out completely subjective criteria and not saying I'm "right". It's more like, "what kind of life would my hypothetical son live to make me feel the most pride in him?". If I ask myself this question, promiscuity, being prone to existential anxiety, overthinking in general, and general indecisiveness are distinctly not behaviours and traits I'd want him to exh
Fair enough, but professional landscaper in suburban Arkansas? Who in the actual fack want that?
sure, just any job with a lot of autonomy where you arent' cucked by bureaucracy and arbitrary decidedly non-meritocratic hierarchies. Maybe some sort of military job where a degree is needed or a CPA or lawyer with his own small business. Just something where you can avoid HR ladies and incompetent admins.
and financial controllers
Guy,
Shockingly we are pretty much in agreement on what constitutes an alpha male. I got my academic knowledge in a unconventional setting solving derpy stats problems using cutting edge research and reading comically bad dissertations by PhD statisticians/comp sci boiz. (Data cleaning isn't an "optimization" folks. Its like literally one of the first things you do as a data scientist on day 1 with a new dataset.)
Also, I think most people who shit on people in flyover areas vastly overestimate the benefits they garner from being in a "culture rich" area. Basically people wanna live away from criminal areas. (If I leave a bag in my backseat, and park outside my house there isn't a decent possibility someone will smash the window. So major cities, Hawaii, etc are all out.) Also not a lot of weird black people in the US. But Native reservations are also bastions of crime, poverty, and generally all manner of fucked up stuff. The obvious wins are that your disposable income and standard of living on 250k in Arkansas is probably higher than people living in a major metro until they take home 1m+. Lets take the riveting city of Manchester where virtually everyone who is mildly wealthy lives in a small southern suburb where you can run into all the City/United players or their WAGs going shopping. Clearly 300k GBP a week doesn't stretch as far as you want if you can't even live in the city! And that even assumes you enjoy things on a regular basis that are only afforded in a major city. Ballet, fashion shows, art galleries, etc. I have not been to any of those sort of things in years. But I goto my neighborhood bar and grill multiple times a week, and walk through a UNESCO world heritage site looking at multiple buildings from the 1200s multiple times daily. Beyond this, I know several folks who got rich rich and either moved to massive houses in more rural settings. Or moved to areas where a bunch of other rich people congregate (La Zagaleta, weird spots in Dubai, etc). Some stayed in major cities. It really just depends what life you want and having the ability to create it.
After doing some quick research on mortgage rates in Little Rock and the housing market. It appears you can easily afford to live in the nicest area of Little Rock on 250-350k. And in a fairly mid-sized house (3500ish). You'd need to add a couple lawn crews or expand into sprinkler expansion to really get into the bigger job (5k+). But again. depends on what you want. I know a dude who lives in a ~7ksqft house with a double lot that is prob worth ~1m or so, but happens to be one of the top Porsche racing instructors and one of their top prototype testers. (Got a free prototype 918) It is fun to shit on these people for being little bumpkin hicks. But there is also a dude who runs a lawn service in the neighborhood. And obviously myriad tech bros and an absurd number of Indian doctors. Rich people are generally pretty successful and they run the gamut of interests and actually provide a much more diverse community when you're in a lower barrier to entry market. (Does anyone in Lux do anything other than banking/finance and their related industries?)
k enough ranting.