1-3 preflop

Sick
I think you’ve got to fold
I don’t think she has worse than TT and you’re behind. If she has AK you could get hurt.

Maybe, if you think you can use the board to convince her she fell behind, but I’m not that fancy.

Honestly, I can let it go pretty easily
It really is a trouble hand
I guess I’m a crazy nit.

That's a tough one, and I get the urge to call, but against the tight older players I play against (all men), it's a fold. Seems even more so against a tight older woman (and I am an older woman, so I can say that 😉 ).

Call and proceed cautiously postflop