Moderation Questions

Are you sure you have the right dude this time before shooting off your mouth?

Yes. You're welcome.

I don’t think either of those two options are strange, why do you ask?

“Wined and dined her”

AKA a beer and burger at a trashy sports bar.

You're supposed to go into it with no expectations that way whatever happens you're happy.

I agree, that's why I used the word "hope" instead of "expect".

I think you can hope to have sex but still be happy assuming you had a good time otherwise.

IF this is a first date (and you think this question is appropriate)...... maybe your way of thinking is askew.

If the goal is to have sex then there is no reason to wine and dine someone

I’m fine when men take me out to dinner for there to be hopes and romantic feelings but I don’t understand what your point is at all.

With dudes like mongidig, you’re really just choosing between whether he’s gonna call you a slut or a prude afterward.. The classic double bind

I pretty much just know if sex is going to happen or not. Every once in a while you meet someone and then you know it's on. But I also don't ever really go on dates. Maybe I went on one once in 2018 with a Belgian girl because she was super cute even though I knew it wasn't happening

Hypothetically speaking two people going on a date with romantic desires and physical attraction is fine, but that hypothetical is not what you were banned for at all. You have many quotes like this:

For starters what isn’t ok is hoping to use a woman as a decorative ornament only so that you can masterbate later. That is textbook misogyny. So you were banned for something very different than your provided hypothetical.

I have to go but it gets worse and far from just “Would it be more strange if a guy took a girl out, wined and dined her and hoped that at the end of the night they would be having sex.” kind of hypotheticals. Happy Halloween everyone.

Yes.

I know it might be crazy to you but some men don’t need to get a girl plastered to hook up.

You're either doing the sex wrong or the masturbation very right.

Getting plastered may limit performance as well . This post sponsored by Viagra

I was imagining hot dogs and a bottle of Thunderbird in the 7/11 parking lot.

Basically anything market priced.

I've never called a girl a name afterward.

‘Why do people make these assumptions about me?!’ says guy who won’t shut the **** up about evidence to the assumptions

Well no, probably not to the girl, but to your empty bed, yeah.

So it’s like paying for a hooker but cheaper, right?

Cool cool cool