Thread about dating girls and struggles and loneliness
Hi I want to date a girl because I feel lonely and I have no friends.From school to highschool I used drugs,nicotine,tobacco on myself because I had no way to make a connection with someone.My dad always beated me and I was very weak and couldn't draw a circle or other things.I went to the gym but no one cheered me up and I wanted to commit suicide.
I know this sounds insane but how do I get a girlfriend?What do I tell her?
I mean in college no girl would look at me because I don't have this psychological way of confessing that I love someone and neither I have this emotion in me for that.
2 years ago I pressed the heart meridian with my own finger on the heart because I felt like that guy from Hokuto no Ken Souther and Kaioh.I want to find love.
Where can I find it?
Ask your mom for advice.
switch to trans gender dating if your nervous dealing with the opposite sex...
ZING!
Aren't your parents supposed to give you a girlfriend?
Wolly!! Woohoo!!
You will find it easier to attract a good woman by proving yourself a good man. Get a good job.
You feel lonely?
Get a cute dog. Then walk the dog around where you live. Instant icebreaker when talking with women.
Last thing this guy needs is a dog.
Oh, I was thinking of the dog's well being, for sure.
do not fret, there is always someone for everyone.
I'm disappointed to hear wolly's life continues to get worser
You’re the best, Wolly!
Your line of thinking is completely backwards. Get some friends and get some help for your mental health first.
People generally don't want to date someone who is suicidal and has no friends.
Do you have a job yet or are you still expecting your parents to support you?
Support comes from within. And Skechers. Get yourself a pair of fresh Skechers.
As someone who is now old who felt similar to you when I was young, I have two bits of advice for you:
1) Concentrate on your job/skill/sport/game/art. Whatever it is that excites you, that makes you want to get up in the morning. Don't worry about romantic attachments right now. They will happen when they happen, sometimes in the most surprising ways. Work at something you are passionate at, and THAT will make you attractive to girls.
2) When you do find yourself dating someone, realize that she is just a normal person. As ****ed up as anyone else. Treat the girl like a human first, and a girl second. Girls are a lot more than what they look like, or a simple sex partner. I know this sounds obvious, but many men do not treat women like a normal person, they instead put them on a pedestal and therefore become disappointed when that girl does not obviously live up to that ridiculousness.
Looks like this is Dominic's first experience with a wolly thread.
Definitely do not put that person on a pedestal
How's your poker game wolly?
I look forward to reading about the steps you are taking to remedy your problems, Wolly! 😀
