I want to find a girlfriend, but I simply can't.
Hello, I am an online grinder, 24 years old.
I've been pretty succesful lately as an online player, and I'm very happy with my career as a poker player, this was my first 6 figures year and I am heading to big stakes.
Everything is fine except my social life, I don't realy have any real close friend, I am aspergers so honestly this doesn't realy matter much to me, I have fun alone with my poker(but it would be nice to have some friends), I just talk with people from the poker world(study group).
All of the above is not really a big deal, but the biggest issue I am having in my life atm is trying to find a partner, and I do think I really need someone to talk to and just be myself, have fun, share and enjoy life with eachother.
Because I simply don't meet women, or the women that I meet are working and I don't wanna interrupt them while they work. I am in no social circles, and honestly I am not interested in having hobbies, I just do some exercise, go to my fav restaurant, study and play poker, repeat. I don't realy know how to break this circle, I am also kinda shy till I know someone and get some confidence, once I break the ice I am very fine socialy.
I am attractive and I had success dating women in the past but yeah..., I think last time I aproached a girl was 1 year ago xD
I won't use tinder btw.
sory for bad englando, tried me b3st 😀
Hi wolly!
making 6 figures in a year online in 2024, how concerned are you that you didn't make 7 figures due to your opponents using RTA?
Oh also join a book club.
volunteer at various pet shelters in your area until you find the girl that you like, then come back to this thread for step two
Do you have a problem meeting guys? Maybe you should try some gay stuff.
Lots of women in yoga classes. Local theater. Or church.
Oh I missed this, do this. Listen to McLovin, I say! You might even learn something, from the books I mean, not the women.
Don't tie yourself in knots over this. Act like nobody's watching. Cruise the pews.
The women will teach you more life lessons than any books. Sadly, it will always be too late to benefit you enough to gain an advantage over them.
How do you feel about leather and latex OP?
Why is interrupting someone while they’re working a no-go in your book? Before I was married, I dated a few waitresses, baristas, and retail workers by talking to them while they work.
Unless you’re being out of line or over the top/annoying OR if they have a job they need to focus closely on like neurosurgery, you should be fine.
Why is interrupting someone while they’re working a no-go in your book? Before I was married, I dated a few waitresses, baristas, and retail workers by talking to them while they work.
OP doesn't have the chops to hit on chicks at their job. He came out of the womb scrolling on an iPhone.
If you're not interested in having hobbies, you're probably not interesting enough of a person for a woman to want you.
Develop a personality beyond poker. Engage in something in your life that's meaningful. Meet women that way.
give The Black Phillip show a tube
Wolly - you really need to start a blog
Taking romantic advice from 2+2 is -EV
Hang out in the cucumber dept at your local grocery store.
But eat a lot of Georgia oranges while you're killing time.
And if you hang out too boldly, you may not look very impressive.
No, you don't.
aka cruise the cukes
But eat a lot of Georgia oranges while you're killing time.
And if you hang out too boldly, you may not look very impressive.
now convinced a rhyme word with orange is georgia but only pronounced with particular accent in specific order
and in the immortal words sung by a non-skynyrd van zandt:
Spoiler
hold on loosely, but don't let go
go with escorts, it will be cheaper in the long run, '...I don't pay hookers for sex, I pay them to leave...' Charlie Sheen
aka cruise the cukes
now convinced a rhyme word with orange is georgia but only pronounced with particular accent in specific order
and in the immortal words sung by a non-skynyrd van zandt:
Spoiler
hold on loosely, but don't let go
I'm not sure why I expected you to go to town, given the tone of this thread
