Moderation Questions
The last iteration of the moderation discussion thread was a complete disaster. Numerous attempts to keep it on topic fa
Lack of male commitment is a major cause.And it lacks because if you are alpha, the market has never been so full of goods you can easily pick up, easier than ever before. Why commit if you get all the positives from a relationship without the negatives o easily these days?If you are beta, you know the system is set up to slaughter you at a moment notice when she gets bored (or
You outgrow the playboy lifestyle when you remember that you have a mission here in the world that goes beyond primitive desires.
What is it when those at the highest levels of status and achievement begin to feel a pronounced emptiness, often right after they achieve something the rest of society says is supposed to be the pinnacle?
Affirming the mother-father-child dynamic is an acknowledgment of this higher cause.
You outgrow the playboy lifestyle when you remember that you have a mission here in the world that goes beyond primitive desires.What is it when those at the highest levels of status and achievement begin to feel a pronounced emptiness, often right after they achieve something the rest of society says is supposed to be the pinnacle?Affirming the mother-father-child dynamic is a
You can fulfill the mission (having decent children that will have children of their own) without quitting womanizing. It just takes more resources.
In some cultures (France, Italy) it is so obvious and expected for successful men to have affairs (to the point people who never do and try to appear angelic are less trustworthy) that the only criticism is if you are too dumb and get caught in public with them.
I remember when the whole Clinton blowjob thing happened we were shocked in Italy. Not at the blowjob , at the reaction by the American public. Wasn't is absolutely normal and obvious and typical for every president??? Really??? We couldn't believe it.
A higher mission than that. It’s the calling you align with when you realize nothing society offers can fulfill you.
Do you think the Bill Clinton / Andrew Tate types are fulfilled? They are not.
Neither is the trad family man.
What I'm learning is there's a lot of degenerates itt who also don't floss their teeth.
Personally never been a fan of strip clubs though I imagine it plays different for women
There’s no world where a paid lap dance is gonna do it for me and I will never be ‘that guy’ who makes it his mission to take home someone he buys a dance from cuz I bet I can win her over
Porn is cool though, but even that I’ve become pretty desensitized to. Homemade stuff is basically the only things that’ll pique my interest
Get a gd waterpik you lazy *****
Personally never been a fan of strip clubs though I imagine it plays different for womenThere’s no world where a paid lap dance is gonna do it for me and I will never be ‘that guy’ who makes it his mission to take home someone he buys a dance from cuz I bet I can win her overPorn is cool though, but even that I’ve become pretty desensitized to. Homemade
It does play different for women. They always came home with me without any coercion. A few became friends with benefits. I had a lot of fun in my twenties.
For neanderthals it isn't sure yet if we actually mostly genocide them, or caused them to become extinct because they retire away from us, but at the end the effect was similar I suppose.
I think there are significant pockets of neolithic farmers that never got genocided in Europe btw. That because they were good at genocide themselves ofc
European genetic pre-history is fairly well documented at this point. You could probably get a general genetic breakdown of any European ethnic group from Wikipedia, or even AI, if you were so interested.
I dont know how precise you were trying to be with the term Neolithic, but it seems most European DNA predates the Neolithic era, which would mean the majority of Neolithic farmers weren't subsequently genocided.
Not sure who these women are from Rick’s stats who think porn is as bad as cheating, but I admit I might be hanging out with a bunch of whores
Personally I think you guys make a lot of **** up
I'm sure there are some who think its cheating who are just full blown against it in general
I'm sure some women feel like its cheating when it becomes an addiction to the point that they no longer receive attention
Thats generally the issue behind porn use, and not a fundamental bias against it
I know that many Gen Z women watch a lot of porn. Its not surprising when all their male peers are completely un****able
Maybe if it reaches addiction levels I could see an issue, or if the kinks get out of control and they expect you to match. But in general I don’t see how anyone could feel threatened by porn. Ideally you’re watching it together.
Intimacy is a wild concept, I know.. 😃
I guess I should say I am not okay with a few genres of porn and would be concerned if my significant other was watching them frequently..
I’ll also say that women in friend groups can be extremely willing to disclose details of their sexual encounters for the sake of discussion and feedback. I know wayyyy too much about a couple names in poker, only because my friends told me in hushed giggles over happy hour small plates. It’s definitely a thing, so I don’t begrudge men doing similarly. There just seems to be a fundamental difference in tone when discussed between women vs men. We’re usually not shitting on you guys.
‘Porn is cheating’ is definitely a ludicrous take, never had a partner who cared and always encouraged my partners to enjoy when they thought appropriate, sometimes we did together
Though I did have an ex who was specifically into Bruce Venture, which kinda bothered me, dude just gives off the aura of ‘I huff glue and I eat paint’ embodied in a person
One time we were watching one of his scenes together and I started doing a slingblade impression. Last time she ever watched porn with me
French fried potaters mm mm
Never heard of that person, looked him up. Yeah, not a fan of the caveman look. One of my prejudices is if a man has too prominent a brow bone I automatically believe in my heart he’s an idiot and nothing can change it
Rickroll, you got a prominent brow bone, my guy?
I honestly don’t talk sexually around either men or women. It’s just not of interest to me. It’s usually a very boring conversation topic, so doesn’t come up.
And yeah it makes me uncomfortable when people do “guy talk” at the poker table, because usually “guy talk” is borderline rapey/sexual harassment. No thanks.
but you acknowledge it exists and is common
that's the point - not that it's universal but that it exists in day to day life and it's not some obscure thing only a cretin would ever run into
The fertility numbers show a lot of things but I doubt that lack of selection is one of them
Decision paralysis is typically from an overabundance of choices
in asia whenever a woman lives in the same place she grew up - she's going to be overly conservative and fearing judgement of her family/parents so all relationships are taken very slow and only if there is serious intention to marry from day one
if she wants to casually date without pressure just seeking immediate fun - her family will disapprove - and they'll all know about it
however, the women who live away from their families freely sleep around casually and can pursue more hedonistic goals in their youth - they are free to do so as their family would never know about their dating activities
in fact, there is literally an entire industry of "boyfriend for hire" for chinese new year when they all go home to their family where they literally pay a man to pretend to be a respectable boyfriend with a serious career so that their family will get off their case about worrying that she'll become a spinster
i imagine this heavily applies to the west as well - where most single people are absconded from judgement and have a bounty of options so they continue to date and see new people instead of hard committing
i'm in the process of settling down now and while it's an easy choice because for the first time i am not interested in what could be behind door #2 because i don't see how my current situation could possibly be improved - but i can't help but have intrusive thoughts over whether or not i've psyched myself out into believing that simply because my biological clock is now ticking - but at the end of the day it doesn't really matter so i'm happy either way
You can fulfill the mission (having decent children that will have children of their own) without quitting womanizing. It just takes more resources.In some cultures (France, Italy) it is so obvious and expected for successful men to have affairs (to the point people who never do and try to appear angelic are less trustworthy) that the only criticism is if you are too dumb and g
in asia it's expected that any successful man will keep at least one mistress
did you not read the article i linked?
i know of several spouses of friends who forbid porn and think their husbands actually comply
i've dated several women who said if i ever masturbated or watched porn without her that would be considered cheating
Never heard of that person, looked him up. Yeah, not a fan of the caveman look. One of my prejudices is if a man has too prominent a brow bone I automatically believe in my heart he’s an idiot and nothing can change it
Rickroll, you got a prominent brow bone, my guy?
you can use your mods powers and find me, there are several pics of me posted on this website
