ACR PLO i can't win

I was playing on coin poker and thought maybe its the software to where almost ever single top set would lose to a flush , it says %77.5 for me to win on the turn and they still hit , I switched to ACR and the same **** is happening, I had top set 3 different times in an hour and lost all 3 allin to a flush draw , then when I have the nut flush and go allin and they have the set the board pairs , every one keeps saying its variance, , when is my hand going to hold , I make 1 or 2 buy ins and then lose 3 or 4 , im playing perfect , another thing is when ever I fold my hand to a huge bet when I have a gutter or some draw the rabbit hunt says I get there almost every single time , like litterlery more than %50 its extremely frustrating and very weird , is the rabbit hunt thing legit? Or is it just to **** with my head... I can't seem to go on a run and make money, I just keep getting sucked out on on the big pots , when ever I have the absolute nuts every one will fold and ill make nothing , its like they can see my cards , idk what to do , its been 3 months of this **** , one more thing I've noticed is every time I flop top set with 88s they will river there flush and they will always have 3 of the same suite in their hand , on both sites it happened 7 times now , im afraid to play , last thing is the bomb pots like suck you in , I flopped top set with nut flush draw and got it allin vs bottom pair and worse flush and they guy back doors nut straight , I instantly rebuy and get AA67 double suited vs same guy , I flop top set with nut flush draw again vs the same guy ,on a A 10 2 board and get it all in again , he has A1035 and just rivers a non heart 4 for straight again , so 2 hands in a row to the same guy , I tried looking up the odds its like %0.02 or something I dont know what to do , I just keep losing and losing , then about 20 mins later vs the same guy i had AK44 with hearts on big blind , I check and the is flops Q J 6 with 1 heart , guy bets small , I call to try and hit straight , instead the turn is the 4 of hearts , which gives me a set of 4s with flush draw , theres 3 other people in , I just check and one guy bets and the dude who cracked me just calls , it gets back to me and I pot it , then the guy who bet folds and the guy I cant beat goes all in , at this point im like bro I gotta win a hand vs this guy , hopefully im ahead if not I have outs I go allin and he had JJ for higher set , the river is another Jack and gives him quads , im like thats 3 times in a row , how come I can't suck out 1 time and how the **** does that 4 of hearts peel off , I guess I dont know how to play , every time I have top set im afraid to even bet becuase I lose more than I win, can some one explain why this is happening? And I know you guys are gunna say its variance which is fine , its been over 3 months now , how much longer do you think this is going to last? When I play live i win almost every single one of these hands , but online I lose more than I win when im over %75 to win , the math's not adding up , please some one help me im losing my mind