Moderation Questions
The last iteration of the moderation discussion thread was a complete disaster. Numerous attempts to keep it on topic fa
lol wait you think I respect you enough to actually engage you in debate?
Hahahhahahha. Get over yourself, clown. I have literally no respect for you
Then why are you commenting on my posts?
If you have no intention of actually engaging with me you should probably just keep your mouth shut next time.
I read this post in its entirety and my conclusion is Im done talking to straight guys ever again. under all circumstances including online and offline. bye.
Straight guys includes straight trans men and straight black guys. So youÂ’re never talking to a straight black guy ever again?
Let’s just skip straight to the hyperspecific bigotry against cis straight white guys so we can expose that the left protects all groups except that one.
here is an example of a debate tactic over trying to undertand someone elses viewpoint, where i left the debate for days. The message I was responding to included a number of unusual conclusions and a homophobic take, and I chose to stop talking to you. But rather than empathize with anything said to you , you decided that your following post would be a debate tactic , which is clearly something you’re proud of. It should be obvious that when i say all straight men in that post, that includes all straight men regardless of their race or gender assigned at birth. but in your mind this is a “gotcha” rather than an embarrasing thing to write. It’s not simply that you use debate tactics, its that you often combine them with a strange misunderstanding of the posts you’re responding to and clear domineering language.
You guys are getting too personal in the weird bad kind of way
great. why do you even want to follow me around then? You do indeed use a wide variety of domineering debate tactics when you talk to me and for no reason. If my posts are annoying you should probably just not read them.
If you don’t want to dialogue, fine. I’m not following you around bud, get over yourself. I was already in a different conversation when you replied to me.
I’m not going to get in a back and forth over the meta conversation. I’m much more interested, ironically, in learning where you think I went wrong before, which is what I’ve been asking you.
here is an example of a debate tactic over trying to undertand someone elses viewpoint, where i left the debate for days. The message I was responding to included a number of unusual conclusions and a homophobic take, and I chose to stop talking to you. But rather than empathize with anything said to you , you decided that your following post would be a debate tactic , which is
Funny, for someone who says I can’t follow people’s logic you sure have committed to the exact line of logic I was pointing out.
You remained consistent at the cost of saying you don’t like straight black men or straight trans men. Good one bro. Remember, I’m supposedly the bigoted one here.
The best consistency is to not like any men
I think a lot of ethical systems can be consistent, I just think consistency isn’t the ultimate goal. Racists can be perfectly consistent in their horrible beliefs. So can misogynists. Being a consistently prejudice person isn’t a good thing, at least for my views and goals.
Exactly. And not getting laid makes you the lowest of the low in society’s eyes. What kind of man can’t get laid? Must be some worthless loser freak if you can’t even accomplish that. 
Well, if one doesn't wish to pursue getting laid because of whatever reason, then fine, but if you can't get laid and you want to, then yeah, you gotta figure some chit out because it's not rocket science.
Look at the pic posted. That dude has never gotten to the sniffing butt stage, let alone gotten his noodle wet. No wonder dude has so much hate - it's self-loathing redirected to whatever groups his political sources tell him to dislike.
Lots of men are damaged but not nearly at the same rate. I don't know any women who don't have severe emotional issues. It's non stop drama with them. They complain about their co workers. They complain about their ex boyfriends. They complain about their female friends. As I listen to them I can't help but notice how much of this was their doing. They simply don't take respons
You nailed the incel mentality. Is this a copypasta or were you speaking freely?
She said “men have become un****able” and when I pointed out that this implies men were ****able at some point she corrected me.
It’s not about improving what she wrote, it’s about trying to understand what she means, because it’s pretty opaque. Maybe you can explain it to me.
Friendly Reminder: Expecting a thoughtful dialogue with CN on the topic of men is a fool's errand. (In my humble opinion, of course.)
What if you have almost never bought any clothing, you just wear clothes others have given you as gifts?
(Asking for a friend.)
I seldom buy clothes, but when I do it's usually at thrift stores like Salvation Army and Goodwill.
That said, sometimes I'll just go crazy and buy something at Target. Once in a while you just gotta get out of your comfort zone and go for the gold!
What if you have almost never bought any clothing, you just wear clothes others have given you as gifts?
(Asking for a friend.)
If you like them and feel comfortable in them, go for it.
That said, there is no shortage of people with an eye for clothes they like, but people with an eye for what will look good on others or be comfortable for others is far rarer. Rarer still are those magicians who can find you things you like that you did not even consider as an option.
A good piece of clothing feels good to wear and makes you happy about what you see in the mirror. Or happier, if you're more inclined to measure your mood in relative terms.
Use this exact post as your tinder profile. I promise that’ll get them wet
Edit: maybe take a second and really think about your rage post you’re gonna make quoting this where you TOTALLY DONT CARE so I know for sure that you TOTALLY DONT CARE. Maybe ask chatgpt for some edits
Speaking of "rage posts".
If you like them and feel comfortable in them, go for it. That said, there is no shortage of people with an eye for clothes they like, but people with an eye for what will look good on others or be comfortable for others is far rarer. Rarer still are those magicians who can find you things you like that you did not even consider as an option. A good piece of clothing feels good
Does it really make you "happier" or does it make you feel good for a very short fleeting moment?
Well, if one doesn't wish to pursue getting laid because of whatever reason, then fine, but if you can't get laid and you want to, then yeah, you gotta figure some chit out because it's not rocket science. Look at the pic posted. That dude has never gotten to the sniffing butt stage, let alone gotten his noodle wet. No wonder dude has so much hate - it's self-loathing redirect
I think those Arizona dudes being incels is a bit unlikely. That’s actually what makes it scarier than the normal story of someone getting unmasked for doing nazi memes. These were actually semi-relevant people in the AZ Republican scene, and it wasn’t just men either, there were also women.
They certainly weren’t a prime specimen of the white ubermensch though.
