Online dating thread
I started this as a thread where 2+2 members could share advice on online dating. I'm 25 years old, and have had trouble finding a GF in person, so I've decided to try the online route.
I admittedly have no game when it comes to girls, as I'm a natural shy person, so I'll mostly be on the receiving end of the knowledge. As I improve, I'll share the wealth. :-)
From poker I've learned how helpful it is to have an advisor to give you advice and encouragement, and sympathize with you when you fail.
For starters, what are the best sites out there for free, and what sites are worth laying the money down for a subscription ? I'm on POF and OKcupid.
Getting dumped did not feel particularly good. But there is consolation in knowing that I would have had basically zero shot at going out with this woman a few years ago when I was fat, less confident, and wasn't doing as well professionally. The higher the climb the harder the fall I suppose.
try a plain looking veterinarian next time round... nvm she will see a lot of horse cock... so only if you're not in a rural area
Funnily enough I read something recently discouraging people from adopting pets in my city because high cost of living is driving out veterinary technicians which is degrading animal care services. So it might be slim pickens with vets.
I dated an attractive medical doctor I met on hinge for about 5 months and then she abruptly dumped me last month. Maybe no more attractive doctors. A less attractive physical therapist could be the way to go.
Did she give you any reasoning? You didn’t see it coming at all? Had you had the exclusivity talk yet?
Getting a reason is the worst. Wtf is the exclusivity talk? If a girl asks you , great , if they don’t, I wouldn’t bring it up for a long time if ever.
On the contrary, I thought his words were not pointless but quite adroit. Meanwhile your post was rather elementary Malucci.
When someone you’ve been online dating ends things, you just say ok talk to you another time.
What you’re doing now is playing the long game and trying not to **** up chances at future sex.
Asking questions and being sad/ whiny is a bad look. Just leave them be and see if they come back
Also don’t try to be exclusive with girls you meet on dating sites. They are there to date up , get free meals and get ****ed by the hottest guys they can find. They aren’t there to get into an exclusive relationship with a guy who is too insecure to date a girl without being exclusive. Girls want what they can’t have. When you ask them to be exclusive , they have already won
what if you've been dating in real life?
what i've you've been dating in a simulation?
Dating up is going to get you used, left and cheated on.
Gotta date down as a dude for success. Life isn’t fair lmao. Men that are 7s don’t get women that are 8s often enough to be a good use of your time
Depends what you mean by "dating up". A male doctor who is a 7 on looks can quite confidently assume their dating pool is women who are 8-9 and maybe even 10 in looks.
Meanwhile an unemployed man who is a 7 will probably have to settle for a woman who is max 4.
Depends what you mean by "dating up". A male doctor who is a 7 on looks can quite confidently assume their dating pool is women who are 8-9 and maybe even 10 in looks.
Meanwhile an unemployed man who is a 7 will probably have to settle for a woman who is max 4.
Doctors get like +2 points , maybe +3
Same thing for being 6’3+
Being unemployed isn’t a downside for a lot of women. But typically a man of level 7 desirability can date lots of 6s
Women love bad boys and projects.
i'm in
but need details:
neck/forehead/cheek?
color?
design?
I'm thinking best to get tear drops but instead of tears it's mom hearts
Some teenage girls love bad boys. In the absence of any tangible markers of success, high levels of confidence and risk taking in teenage men are probably decent predictors of success later in life.
However, once a woman goes to uni and has a good graduate job, she is hardly ever dating "bad boys and projects".
Some teenage girls love bad boys. In the absence of any tangible markers of success, high levels of confidence and risk taking in teenage men are probably decent predictors of success later in life.
However, once a woman goes to uni and has a good graduate job, she is hardly ever dating "bad boys and projects".
Not if you’re hot. Can’t tell you how many women with degrees and careers I’ve lived with for free.
You’re good. Not Dream Crusher level but still very good. One of the better trolls on tpt
It both is and isn’t.
