Moderation Questions
The last iteration of the moderation discussion thread was a complete disaster. Numerous attempts to keep it on topic failed, and it became a general discussion thread with almost no moderation related posts at all. And those that were posted were so buried in non-mod posts that it became a huge time drain on the mods to sort through them. Then, when off topic posts were deleted posters complained about that.
This led to the closing of the mod discussion thread, replaced by the post report/pm approach. This has filtered out lots of noise, but has resulted at times in the General Discussion Thread turning into a quasi-mod thread. This is not desirable, but going back to the old mod thread is also not a workable option.
Therefore, I have created this new moderation thread, but with a different purpose and ground rules than previous mod threads. The purpose of this thread is to provide a place for posters to pose questions to the mods about how policies are applied; to bring to the mods attention posts they think are inappropriate and reach the level of requiring mod action; and for mods to communicate to posters things like changes or clarifications to policies, bannings, etc.
Now let me tell you what this thread is NOT a place for. It is not for nonmoderation related posts, even if the discussion originates from a comment in in a mod related post. It is not for posters to post their opinions about other posters or whether a poster should be banned. It is not to rehash past grievances about mod decisions from months or years ago. The focus of this thread will be recent posts that require action now. Or questions about current policies and enforcement.
So basically, this is a thread to ask mods questions. Which means, pretty much that only mods should be answering those questions. If a poster asks why a particular post was deleted or allowed, only a mod can answer that. Everyone else who wants to jump in with their opinion or their mod war story needs to stay out of it. It just increases the noise to signal ratio and does nothing to answer the question.
Everyone needs to understand that this thread has very different rules than the old mod thread and any other thread. Any non-moderation post will be deleted on sight. Not moved to the appropriate thread, just deleted. So don't waste your time crafting a masterpiece post about wars or transgender issues or the presidential election and then post it in this thread. It will be gone. Also, this isnt a thread for general commentary about our mods performance. Posting "browser sucks as a mod" or any such posts that don't actually ask about a policy or request a mod action will be deleted. Everyone is entitled to their opinion about the moderation of this forum. But this thread isnt for complaining about mods. You are free to go to the ATF forum and make your concerns about modding in this forum there.
So with that intro, this thread is open for those who need to bring questions about mod policies or bring inappropriate posts to the mods attention. Again, it is NOT a thread for group discussions about other posters or for other posters to answer questions directed to mods.
We'll see how this goes. If you have what you feel is an open issue raised in the General Discussion Thread, please copy that post or otherwise reintroduce the issue here.
Thanks.
this doesn't gel, you clearly did look and are either afraid to admit it anonymously now or you just looked by proxy
if you are another person find someone's diary and one reads it out loud to you, you are just as guilty as the reader
No. I did not look.
I did notice when someone else told everybody. Nothing like your diary example.
Three are some anecdotes I could tell but I'd never want my wife to read them in the event of my sudden death.
Three are some anecdotes I could tell but I'd never want my wife to read them in the event of my sudden death.
Let's just say - if you haven't tasted your own semen, you haven't lived or loved.
I fear I have said too much.
Basically - in the immortal words of Woody Allen - if sex doesn't hurt, you're doing it wrong.
Then again, he was a bit of a pedo, so it might have had an entirely different meaning when he said it.
iirc correctly he was talking about whether sex is dirty or not.
So, didace, you want the real Penthouse letter? I kept it PG, coz, well, you know.
The real letter is that the girl was a ****ing nymph, I'm not sure how else to describe it. Basically, everything I wanted, she not only enthusiastically did, she would write in this diary that she had about how much she enjoyed it. And I do mean, anything. I suspect that I may have ruined her for the men that undoubtedly followed. If I didn't, it wasn't for lack of trying,
Publish the diary; that would be worthy of Penthouse. Assuming it contains what you say. So far, all you've posted is the equivalent of, "Hehe, I had sex once. Really, I did. Hehe".
Or did I just excite you so much with my post that you lost it for a sec there?
I speak the English deliciously, I have spoken it since I were merely twice.
I am so ****ing tempted to write a proper Dear Penthouse letter in this thread right now. Crossnerd/King Spew - if you give me the OK/imprimatur, I'll do it.
Might be easier to ask for forgiveness than permission
Before my wife during my single life I was with someone for a few months who I did not realize regularly used videos I filmed of us for her onlyfans (which I had no idea existed)
When she told me about this she suggested I set up an onlyfans myself for ASMR cuz I had that kinda voice apparently
My bad, I forgot to add, SRM4mod
I’ve never read penthouse and only have a vague idea of what you’re asking to write.
I don’t really have an issue with spicy stories in the low content threads. They just should not involve non-consensual degradation of any kind, or I will ban for that. Otherwise, I seriously doubt you can shock me.
Obviously we don’t really want threads to become personal blogs, but if you guys want to have some fun interlude I don’t have a problem with it.
Also obvi with the caveat that if I end up hating it I’m gonna delete it all and say we can’t talk about it anymore 😀
Oh god, here we go.
d2 - Just be sure that the heroine's name in your story is "Nerdcross".
Don’t do that
I just want to say as preamble - when we met, I was 28 and she was 34. I wasn't the cougar here.
Also, I accidentally saw her bank statement once. She made more on her bonus than I pulled in in 3 months, and I made decent scratch at the time.
All this is to say, all the degradation was entirely consensual.
We first met at work drinks, as can be expected. There was almost a one month period of stand-offishness and sending one another flirty emails. Basically, foreplay.
When we first slept together, it was a bit of a non-event. She invited me over to her place. I was, as can be expected, a bit awkward. We drank and kissed. She told me after that "well, I let him kiss me, figured might as well let him **** me".
In the morning, we woke up on the sofa together, and she straddled me and gave me a nice ride. After she came, she jumped off and sucked me off to completion, without saying a single word which was a nice surprise for a "first date". Not only that, she cooked me breakfast. Guess I made a decent first impression.
Oh, I should probably mention, this was a good looking girl. I mean, not just good looking - all the boys at work wanted her. "Hot" is probably a better term. easily an 8, maybe even a 9. I was told a number of times by various people "punching above your weight, bro".
Anyway, so that's how we got together. I'll start on the meat of the story in a bit.
We need a title for this masterwork. Maybe "Obituary Of A Sex Life".
