Moderation Questions
The last iteration of the moderation discussion thread was a complete disaster. Numerous attempts to keep it on topic fa
That's what I'm talking about: it isn't necessarily a bad thing if dudes want to go out and have sex primarily for self-gratification, as long as everyone is on the same wavelength and the pilot doesn't get too distracted.
Those are her words.
She texted me and said that she is gonna be in my area tonight. This could be it. I've been very patient and played the long game which I don't usually do. I'm actually cleaning and painting my place right now in preparation from her being too drunk to drive home.
A: Ugh
B: painting?
I’m still confused as to what exactly you’re hoping will happen within the context of what you posted, because it sounded like coercion to me.
He wants to get her piss drunk so he can take advantage of her sexually. I'm not sure how the freshly-painted walls come into play, and maybe I don't want to know.
I’m sorry, did you want to dialogue with me again? Or am I going to be accused of following you around after you initiate another conversation?
Consent is important to me.
if you recall the conversation I asked, not demanded that you stop and then you made two more posts to me after that. shrugs.
You almost always are wrong if your thought process is, "Most everyone thinks the same way I do. They are just afraid to admit it." It's an inherently self-centered and self-aggrandizing way to interpret social behavior.
this is pure projection - i have exhibited nothing of the sort and lol at thinking that i, someone who has lived one of the most unique lives imaginable is not slightly self aware to understand that my perspectives and modes of thinking aren't themselves quite unique
no it's not - here's the post if you want to start at patient 0 and review it yourself
https://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/showp...
I'm not in high school any more. I don't know a bunch of men who behave very differently around women than they do around men. And if you (generic you, not you rickroll) find that you are behaving very differently around women than you are around men, then you probably aren't doing it right. Here's a wild idea. Forget for a moment whether you are talking to a man or a woma
and here for good measure you take a post mentioning men discussing porn as if it's a daily conversation - just pure bad faithed posting - you saw an outlet to virtue signal and struck - wholly ignoring that was not at all what he was saying - you just saw an avenue to score points
our discussion continued - here is a summary
and there's the concession that *gasp* porn has come up in conversation and *gasp* even you will act differently depending on whether or not women are present
i still like you immensely, think you're a great poster and fun to chat with and am genuine about wanting to meet up next time i'm back in nyc (but i realize this will probably never happen as you've never shown any interest even before these tiffs) but i lost a massive amount of respect for you after that incident
I’m still confused as to what exactly you’re hoping will happen within the context of what you posted, because it sounded like coercion to me.
I just don't want her to drink and drive even if it's just a couple drinks. If she does come over I want to make sure my place is clean. I don't know how much we will drink it may just be one beer. Her being too drunk would be a good reason for her to stay at my place. I'm preparing for the possibility. I'm not necessarily expecting to have sex but I would certainly be down for it. I assure you it would be consensual. This is not an evil plan I have it's simply a possibility of how things can go.
if you recall the conversation I asked, not demanded that you stop and then you made two more posts to me after that. shrugs.
If you want someone to stop responding, you probably shouldn’t throw in false character assassinations. I respect people asking me not to respond to their posts, but if they’re going to include an attack on me in that request ofc I will respond to the attack.
If you go back through the conversation we had, you’ll see that I was always asking for clarification about what she meant and what you think she meant, and what your argument is, and so on. I’m not interested in debating or discussing a strawman of course. So yes, I acknowledge probably more than others on this forum that someone might mean something else even if I took it a certain way.
If you ever think I mistook what you said, please explain what you really mean instead of trying to attack my character.
Sorry, just to clarify- Are you saying your intention is to have sex with a woman who is too drunk to drive home?
I remember, many years ago, my buddy was hanging out with a chick at the end of the night in our chalet. He told me the next morning that his goal was to get the whiskey bottle they were sharing down to a certain line and it'd be a sure thing. (it didn't happen.)
I remember, many years ago, my buddy was hanging out with a chick at the end of the night in our chalet. He told me the next morning that his goal was to get the whiskey bottle they were sharing down to a certain line and it'd be a sure thing. (it didn't happen.)
It’s scary how many men would just happily be rapists if they could get away with it
it's what he does - puts out the attack and phrases it carefully enough to have an escape hatch to wiggle out of when required - he is a lawyer afterall
get used to it
It's called saying what you mean, no more, no less.
As you well know, I know how to criticize you directly and explicitly if I want to do so.
this is pure projection - i have exhibited nothing of the sort and lol at thinking that i, someone who has lived one of the most unique lives imaginable is not slightly self aware to understand that my perspectives and modes of thinking aren't themselves quite uniqueno it's not - here's the post if you want to start at patient 0 and review it yourself
Rick,
You post interesting things sometimes, and you have a sense of humor, which i appreciate. But what you wrote above is a pathetic attempt to take a second undeserved victory lap. I'm not going to relitigate the details of that exchange. It isn't worth it. If those exchanges caused you to lose respect for me, trust me when I tell you from the deepest recesses of my heart that I do not give a ****.
