"The Pen:" Live NLHE Chat Thread
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What’s up everyone. Glad to see all is well
Have two questions that I need help with if yall don’t mind
Question one
My friends wife gets drunk and says we all need to go in the hot tub and have adult fun. Next time I come over it changes to “we need to take our clothes off and get in the hot tub and have adult fun”
I asked two of my married friends and they told me that’s weird
So what’s going on?
She wants to have adult fun in the hot tub with you, that's what's going on.
Yeesh, sorry to hear that, prairie!
All the best for a speedy recovery, and future grand-prairies
Yeesh, sorry to hear that, prairie!
All the best for a speedy recovery, and future grand-prairies
Yeah it’s a good story to tell over beers.
WPT in December anyone?
Cliffs: hurt bad, kept fighting, won grand champion, 3 days later emergency surgery to save it, docs save most of it, his buddies are struggling to give him a nickname, grand kids should be A-OK even if he does lose it, docs tell him another hit like THAT and he will lose it, kid doesn’t seem bothered about it.
Nickname should be "Ace," imo.
Glgl to prairie Jr.
oof
More nicknames:
Half sack
Obi One Cajone
Agree with all of this.
How do people really need to be told not to **** their friend’s spouses without their knowledge? If it’s with their knowledge then why are you asking us…
I’m not sure the etiquette here and I don’t wanna be rude.
Ski season can't come fast enough and I don't ski.
Not sure if serious, but if so, the answer is easy. Call your friend that you haven't seen in years but love very much and ask him how he feels about it.
I feel like I’m just going to ignore it. He either doesn’t know she’s tryna bone OR he knows and he’s ok with it imo
Either way I think just ignoring it is best. But wasn’t sure
next time she brings up adult time look at her point blank and ask "how long have you and (friends name) been in the lifestyle"? If they are ackshual swingers in the swinging lifestyle she will perk right up and tell you. If she is confused in any way then she is going behind his back and yer pal is not hip to her shenanigans imo.
Happy Memorial Day, degens.
Today we remember Prairie Jr.'s bombombedero.
next time she brings up adult time look at her point blank and ask "how long have you and (friends name) been in the lifestyle"? If they are ackshual swingers in the swinging lifestyle she will perk right up and tell you. If she is confused in any way then she is going behind his back and yer pal is not hip to her shenanigans imo.
This is not as good advice as one might think. There are all sorts of things that could be going on here, and lifestyle swinging is nowhere near the top of the list. The swinging world is its own little island, and not everyone who is interested in sex beyond the bounds of marriage is clued into it.
PointlessWords' description of what happened is scant; but based on the scant evidence, the conclusion I leap to is that friend's wife has a hankering for getting done by two guys at once, and she has singled out PW as the unicorn. This is rather different from lifestyle swinging, which is more like ritualized partner-swapping.
I could be overthinking it but I feel like it’s some kinda thing they have agreed to explore together but that’s not something I’d like to do. And I feel like addressing it would be really weird!
I will bring my swimsuit next time , problem solved.
Hanging out getting drunk with friend and wife, wife asks a couple times to get in hot tub and have adult fun n drinks
Hangout with wife and friend again, same conversation but this time it’s naked adult fun. The vibes I get are in tune with mr bostick said.
I personally am not into mincing around. My response "how long you bin in the lifestyle" is 100% non judgemental and simply brings around a conversation that most likely needs to happen. Or you can dick around and get wierd about it and be uncomfortable.
ETA Lifestyle - ritualized partner swap is simply 1 aspect. +1 be it M or F happens all the time
Idk man.
Am not a swinger so w/e my mindset is prolly out of whack but why would you want to **** your friend’s wife anyway? So many things that can go wrong in different ways in the short, medium and long term and the only ‘go right’ is to get a root and you can do that in a ton of other places
maybe he likes to watch his pals drill his wife. The permutations on this one are high. Only one way to find out and that is to have a convo. The convo can be, "well good for you guys but that is a boundry I would prefer not to cross". Communication is difficult. I have always found being direct works best for me.
I’ve seen this kind of stuff on some websites I’ve viewed before. Do any of you happen to also be step mothers?
PointlessWords has the Letter Kenny swingers episode written all over it. Get out of the hot tub and go grab a Puppers is the correct play.
Tapatalk getting worse or is it just me?
Big part of the reason I am on 2+2 less is how bad Tapatalk is
