Moderation Questions
The last iteration of the moderation discussion thread was a complete disaster. Numerous attempts to keep it on topic fa
Agree, the problem is these same men you describe are incredibly abusive toward women to the point that women are better off not talking to them at all for the sake of their own mental health and wellness. Women are starting to refuse to take on that labor, and we are happier for it tbh.
I mean, "Men are coarse regarding sex and they need to focus more on shared emotional needs" is certainly valid, but we could also flip this and say "Women are just too uptight about casual, transactional sex." At some point we're just sort of mad that the opposing sexes don't prioritize emotional/physical needs in the same way.
This is ironic because this post doesn’t actually address what crossnerd was saying because you didnt take the time to think about it.
You almost always are wrong if your thought process is, "Most everyone thinks the same way I do. They are just afraid to admit it." It's an inherently self-centered and self-aggrandizing way to interpret social behavior.
like last year when you claimed not to know a single man who would ever comment on a woman's appearance just to signal how above it all you were only to then later admit that wasn't true when i pressed you on the absurdity of that bald faced lie
This is a blatant mischaracterization of the discussion you are referring to.
Maybe you're just being performatively abrasive? Or maybe you and Rocco are both being your authentic selves and you simply have different standards for how people should behave and communicate?
This is ironic because this post doesn’t actually address what crossnerd was saying because you didnt take the time to think about it.
I disagree about at least the second part.
For whom am I performing? I've never met any of you. I doubt I ever will. My comments were directed at the men because 95% of the posts have been from men. I often disagree with CN's broad brush characterizations. But based on the way that men in this forum talk (and apparently think) about sex, I understand why we she thinks a lot of you guys are creeps.
Why thank you 😀
Just for the record though, I’m only about 85% serious for the sake of my own sanity. If I don’t enjoy myself a bit in the face of all the ragebait then what am I even doing here.
Those are her words.
She texted me and said that she is gonna be in my area tonight. This could be it. I've been very patient and played the long game which I don't usually do. I'm actually cleaning and painting my place right now in preparation from her being too drunk to drive home.
Those are her words.
She texted me and said that she is gonna be in my area tonight. This could be it. I've been very patient and played the long game which I don't usually do. I'm actually cleaning and painting my place right now in preparation from her being too drunk to drive home.
Sorry, just to clarify- Are you saying your intention is to have sex with a woman who is too drunk to drive home?
But based on the way that men in this forum talk (and apparently think) about sex, I understand why we she thinks a lot of you guys are creeps.
I mean you heavily implied it unless I just don’t understand what is meant by this, which I may not.
